Friday, August 28, 2009

When you have the flu not a lot gets done......

Well having the flu is never fun but with this negative comes a positive and that has been weight loss - nearly a kilo a day now.This flu could not have come at a worse time, on my holidays from work. I had all these grand plans to attack everything on my "To Do" list.I can truthfully say not much has been ticked off the list, although I feel like I have other items that I have been ignoring and need to maybe attach to my to do list? Amongst getting to the accountant to get my tax done, cleaning the bathroom and maybe putting the exercise bike on eBay. I feel that I need to add find potential husband and have babies. I'm single and wait for it in my thirties (shock horror).
Life hasn't turned out how I expected at all! I remember being sixteen and telling my friend that when I was twenty-three I wanted to be living in the city with my boyfriend and look hot in a pair of jeans.Don't ask why but that was my dream or 'fairy-tale'. Little did I know that life actually went on after 23 years, I guess at 16 years of age you think 23 is old!!
Instead at 23 I was single (fresh out of a relationship), I had just bought a home in the burbs and was saving every little dollar I had left to go traveling and I dare not even try on a pair of jeans at the moment.Somehow along the way I found myself trying to keep my head above water paying all the bills, working, trying to catch up with friends. I think I forgot about me.
I thought best to address the situation as even I think 8 years with very few dates is not the best case scenario.
In the past I had been offered by others to be set up on dates, even offered an arranged marriage (which I refused - a story I might share later on), done the Internet dating thing and even the random meet at a bar let's go out thing.The thought of Internet dating makes me cringe and I think that it's just like taking medicine or ripping off a band aid - the sooner it's over and done with, the sooner it's over and done with.
I wonder is there other ways of meeting men?
With my 32ND Birthday less then three months away I hope to get a date in (is one too much to ask for?).
What better way to enjoy the experience then by Blogging it.
Enjoy.

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