Out with the old and in with the new......

OK so it has been a while I know - it has been a somewhat drama filled month or so.
Well the drama with D & M continued and it been a month of valuable lesson learning.
It has all come at a price also and I think it's one of them pinnacle moments in my life that I won't forget in a hurry.
So it was getting closer to the impending birth of D & M's baby and M had decided that she didn't want D to be at the birth. That was understandable - they where still trying to sort out there problems and M had an issue with the fact that D wanted to control every aspect of her life.He would dictate what friends she had, which family members she could talk to, how much she spent what would happen with the house etc; any person would be thinking control freak? Well most people would anyway.So a few days before the birth we go and watch a movie and afterwards we sit down for pancakes.M tells me that she saw a photo of the other women (aka the women who her husband had slept with more then once also known as his boss) she told me that she looked a lot like me and in fact could pass for my sister).So I thought after all the things we where talking about I would tell her about the night club incident that I had been thinking about for the past five years and how wrong it was of him to do such a thing.As I type the words now it seems like a bad story line out of Days of our Lives - M was clearly upset but just held it all together I could tell she was pushing me away.
Although on the drive home I started to question our friendship and all I had done - the fact that she forgot my birthday and never got me a Christmas present (well that is kind of a lie - she did get me golf clubs but I already had golf clubs so she took them back and that was that). How much time I had taken off work and also my personal life to attend to her problems with her marriage and where was that leaving me - going to bed on my own and having no one to come home to.There were many other things that would be too long to elaborate on.
I had taken her laptop to get fixed and got a call back regarding it - so I called and left a message on her home phone.Later that night I received a message from M saying the following " Just got message. Laptop great news miss it and if you can get it back asap as he wants it. I know you probably thinking about last night just don't think you did the best timing for telling me something like that! but am just focusing on labour right now. Let me know when get laptop back" I couldn't believe it I had gone and got that laptop fixed for her not him - it was due to him looking at porno that the laptop got a virus in the first place!!! Also when is the right time to tell someone that there husband has always had a cheating streak in him??My reply was simple "Will get laptop back to you soon. I think maybe I should stay away for a while so you can sort things out. I've been worrying too much what is happening to you and it's your life to do as you please. I just wish you the best. Good luck with birth."
This was someone that I was to assist during the birth and at the pancake parlour she had advised how he had said there would be consequences if he was not at the birth - although stating that she didn' t want him there she had decided that she couldn't bear to put up with D if he was left out of the birth.This being a man who pressured her to have an abortion at four months was saying would want nothing to do with the baby to all of a sudden wanting to be there and be part of that!
Well all I had done for her since her break up amounted to nothing as when M gave birth I didn't even warrant a phone call - the Godmother of her children and being there all that time amounted to me being added to the group message that was sent out.
That was it - friendship over! This was the final straw that broke the camels back I had put up with and put up with and this is the one that I thought enough was enough.
It's time for me and my life.
So I have let go of a draining relationship with a friend and learnt that I should never ever ever let that happen when in a relationship - My husband / partner and l will be my number one priority - and if I do meet someone who takes me for granted hopefully I will pick up them signs early on.
Well about a month now till I turn 32 years of age. Can much happen in a month? Well Khloe Kardasian got married in a month so I guess anything is possible right?